Spousal abuse

There's a post on here bothering me. In said post a woman asks if she's wrong for hitting her husband after finding out he posted explicit photos online (of himself). Sooo many women responded and justified her actions. Am I the only one who finds this appalling? Had the situation been reversed and he was hitting her, he'd be in jail and nobody would be agreeing with his actions. It is NEVER ok to hit your spouse no matter if they're cheating or lying. If they lay hands on you, then you have every right to protect yourself, but NOBODY man or woman has the right to assault their partner. Violence should not be tolerated and is not a solution to marital problems.