Lazy ass bf problems

He won't get a job he says he is "trying" too but he sits And plays computer games all day. He doesn't have time to see me more than once a week. & I asked him to get the rocking chair since I've bought everything else and he said no. I don't need one since he didn't have one. Lmao. Then I guess I'll buy that too. Then since my family has been nice and bought things he says go ask your family for it...I'm sorry you are the father I figured I could ask your lazy ass. & he thinks the baby is getting his last name, when frankly I don't think he deserves it. He isn't present with me now I ask him to do stuff he gets mad what makes him think he will be present then? Do you think I'm wrong on giving the baby my last name