It's more than having sex!!

So lately I have had a low tolerance for people talking about trying to have a baby when they don't have any idea that it involves more than having sex. And today I had someone I am really close to me Tell me that she was supposed to have her period a couple weeks ago and hasn't, but she's not worried because she can't have kids... She has never been tested but is saying this based solely on the fact that she has had unprotected sex about 25 times over the course or the past year. And the 25 isn't with the same man. She doesn't take care of herself physically and it would both a possible baby at risk... But she doesn't want to test because it would depress her of she weren't. She told her so she was on the pill because he has kids already And it's not fair that he wont have one with her. And then I log in to Glow and see a whole bunch of little girls talking about TTC and judging by the ignorance of their posts, I wouldn't trust them with a cat!!

Having the money to take care of a child means nothing.... You're parents wanting grandchildren means nothing.... Wanting one because someone else has one with the man you met 6 months ago is STUPID!

Please wake up and realize that being a parent takes more than having sex and getting pregnant!!!