Should I have sex?!?

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Hii!
I'm 19 years old,i love a boy so much , He expects me to have sex but I don't want it, what should i do?! Stay with him or not?! I know that our relationship not getting so long.that make me to feel not interesting for anybody so I'm afraid to losing him ☹️

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Only have sex of you want to and you're ready.
If he doesn't respect that, then he is not the man for you.

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If you're asking random people on the Internet, the answer is probably no.

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I'm 19 too but honestly, he shouldn't be pressuring you into having sex. If you don't feel comfortable about doing it, then you shouldn't. He shouldn't guilt you into it because that will lead to a sexual assault and regret. If you can love him, then you can love someone who respects you as well.

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Sex isnt equal to love. Tell him how you feel and set your boundaries if he tries to pressure you any further then it may be a good time to say goodbye. Listen to yourself because only you know what's best.

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If you don't want to no. If that's what he "expects" from you & you arn't comfortable with that tell him you arn't ready. If  he understands & is like okay when your ready then stay with him but if he pressures you I wouldn't stay with him

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If you don't feel ready, don't. No boy should pressure you into doing anything sexual or not.

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If you're not ready then you're not ready. Do not let someone make you do something you know that you're not ready for. Explain that you are just not comfortable with it yet. If he loves you as much as you love him he will be understanding of your feelings.

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If he loves you he will wait! Obviously he is gonna want it but he should respect that your just not ready. And you should try and figure out what your reason for not want to is. Not being ready is totally okay ! Don't let the fear of loosing someone be the reason you make the decision to do it. Bc if he doesn't care he could leave anyway and you'll be heartbroken. Figure out what you want and where he is and take t from there. Don't let him pressure you. Do it Bc you want to. 
Good Luck !

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I would make him choose. Tell him you don't want to have sex. So he can eather respect that and you guys can stay together and have a good relationship based on friendship and love not sex. Or if sex is important to him he can go find someone else. Easy as that. If he won't wait for you he's not worth your time. Don't be afraid to be alone. Bc being a lone is better then being with someone who doesn't respect you.

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You just answered your own question. If you don't want it, then don't do it. You will end up being more miserable if you have sex when you don't want to.

Should I have sex?!?

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