Is it the size of the ring or the size of a person's heart..

So on a forum on Facebook a few woman were really irrational on how much your spouse should spend on a ring, I personally didn't care about the size of my ring nor the cost it could of been a bread tie for all I cared... I just wanted to be married to the love of my life. I wanna hear from the ladies that are married or engaged what are your views on this? I posted a picture of what I started with and I just recently upgraded...We got married June 30th😄