High number

Do you think it's bad to have a high number at a young age? My number is at 14 and I'm only 20 and some of my friends say that's a lot of people and I need to chill and other friends are saying do you (not that I tell every person I know how many people I've slept with) but I'm so torn bcause on one hand I can go what I want and the other 11 of the 14 people were this year