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It sounds like you should seek the help of a professional to help you work through the trauma your ex did to you. Sex shouldn't be a chore or be scary, a therapist can help you :) definitely talk with your husband maybe he can go with you to talk to someone
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Ok I'm 33. I have two girls we are trying for a third baby. I'm embarrassed to even say this. This is my second marriage. My first husband was very abusive and mean to me, especially during sex. So with that I have absolutely no confidence. So last night while trying to do the baby dance, I had a flash back of my first husband and completely froze. I felt like I was a kid again not knowing what to do. So my husband made a comment and I started to cry. He apologized which I was ok after that. But my question is what can I do where having sex with my husband doesn't make it like a chore. He is a very plan doesn't care for crazy stuff. I just want to make it interesting so it's not Boring for him, please help.
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Talk to him about it and if you don't want it to come off as he's boring you or something like that then just say you came across some stuff you wanted to try if he's okay with it. People try new stuff all the time. It's all about what you and your husband want and are comfortable with. Let it be an adventure for the both of you! Good luck!
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