Strip Club? Would you be mad?

Tonight my husband let it slip that he and a friend had gone to strip clubs before we got married (6 months ago). I had no idea because he has always been the type to kind of talk down on them. He doesn't like trashy women (not saying all are trashy, but they do offer their body to people other than men who love and respect them). I didn't get angry at first, just confused. I asked why he would go. He said he just went because his friend wanted to and it's a place to have some drinks. He said whenever a girl came up to him that he would decline. Said there are other things to do there than look at women (yeah, right). He has also been watching porn recently behind my back and I've talked to him about how I don't think it's right. We're both religious and I just don't think it's right for a married man to be looking at another woman naked. I also want to throw in there that I'm not a bad looking person. I take care of myself and also do not deprive my husband if you catch my drift. My question is, would you be upset? I just feel like these things make him a little trashy and I feel like I deserve to have a husband who only wants to look at me. This makes me feel like I'm not enough for him.
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Sa

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Id be upset more so cause he lied. Not telling you what he did and being up front is lying. 

K

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I communicated to my husband early in our relationship that that wasn't ok with me, & he agreed that it wasn't good & that he would never do it. It's important to have these conversations & not expect him to read your mind. I know plenty of guys that aren't into strip clubs but go with other guys because they feel like they're supposed to.

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I wouldn't be upset, he might of been embarrassed. And I watch porn with my bf but I get if it's a religious thing I guess

Sh

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Went to one on my wedding night , it was great . I considered being one , it's not offering your body . It's showing it off knowing you look good and getting paid . Easy money