Tonight my husband let it slip that he and a friend had gone to strip clubs before we got married (6 months ago). I had no idea because he has always been the type to kind of talk down on them. He doesn't like trashy women (not saying all are trashy, but they do offer their body to people other than men who love and respect them). I didn't get angry at first, just confused. I asked why he would go. He said he just went because his friend wanted to and it's a place to have some drinks. He said whenever a girl came up to him that he would decline. Said there are other things to do there than look at women (yeah, right). He has also been watching porn recently behind my back and I've talked to him about how I don't think it's right. We're both religious and I just don't think it's right for a married man to be looking at another woman naked. I also want to throw in there that I'm not a bad looking person. I take care of myself and also do not deprive my husband if you catch my drift. My question is, would you be upset? I just feel like these things make him a little trashy and I feel like I deserve to have a husband who only wants to look at me. This makes me feel like I'm not enough for him.