I am from NY, lived there Til I was 34..  I now live in Florida with my husband... I absolutely love Florida... Great weather,  peaceful living... My husband is from Florida so we moved here after we got married a year ago.. I don't ever want to move back to NY but being that I've been without a job and we don't have kids yet I figured I would go for a few days... Is it bad for me to go when I don't have a job?  We are not in a bad situation (I actually make more money than my husband but I don't have a job).   I miss my family and I feel once we have kids I won't be visiting my family as much.. Has anyone been in this situation?