I have my divorce papers filled out & notarized. I just can't make myself go file them. I love my husband very much, and we have a 1 yr old together. My husband was abusive, in every sense of the word. He was an asshole. We haven't been together 19 months. He's been in prison for 18 months. We've been married for 3 years. When it was good, it was really good. But when it was bad, it was really really bad. Should I give him another chance? Or should I file my divorce papers? If it makes a difference, he's also never given me a dime for our child. He has plenty of money on his books to send me, but he refuses. Don't be leaving any rude comments. I know he's an ass, but he's my ass. I know 99% of the time abusers don't change. But I can't help but wonder if he's one of the 1%. He's also bipolar with manic depression, and wasn't taking any meds when we were together. He's been taking them while in prison & he's been much better. Ughh.. I hate being at this crossroad! I just want what's best for my child & myself.