Am I demanding?
Ok you guys. I just want an honest opinion from someone unbiased!
I moved in with my guy in September. He worked out of town, so I did the cooking and cleaning and when he was home I just let him relax because I knew he worked pretty nonstop while he was away. It was my first time living away from home, so I didn't keep things as clean as I do now. I think I just had to get into the swing of things you know?
Anyways, now he's home full time. He's behind on rent, and owes me 2 months right now, plus the economy in our town is absolutely brutal and he's making below minimum wage right now. So he'll miss rent again this month. I'm trying to be supportive, I know if it was me I'd be frusterated too! But when I ask for help around the house he just scoffs and says that he does help(he occasionally fills the water jug in the fridge and takes out the garbage after I leave him notes to do it for a good 3 days). And usually makes a dig about how the house wasn't always perfect when we started living together so he didn't know I'd expect so much. And then watched tv and ignores me while I clean. We fight about it all the time, because I'm working as much as I can now trying to float us and then I come home and have next to no help. I don't ask for much, just that he keeps his bathroom clean and helps with dishes sometimes but he acts like I'm asking him to end world poverty. He would rather go to his friends house and show up when I'm sleeping to get out of helping. So I also miss out on my time with him at the end of the day!:( I ask more than I should I guess, but I'm so sick of not having help! So idk. Do you guys have any ideas? And do you think I'm Being too demanding?
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