Masturbation

hubby plays with himself so much that he can't get it up or ejaculate when he does. before u say anything ladies lol spice it up, kettle work out, don't work for a masturbation junkie. he is 36 and I am very sexually active.  I am really tired of this and think about wanting to leave. he has had this enormous urge for 1.5 yrs and counting. He has no relationship with God either and needs guidance like a lil boy too much. i need a man who loves God and can LEAD his household