Sorry Behind Husband

I swear when people say toddlers keep a messy house they must not have a husband, because I swear my husband will be off from work for days and won't wash a dish washer my pick up after himself or barely feed our son I'm 39 weeks pregnant and work full time 5 days a week I go to work from 7am til 530pm and as soon as I get home I have to clean up and cook and once he sees me bending over to clean and cook he wants to start cleaning and cooking like it was his plan all along. Don't get me wrong I'm very grateful that he wants to help when I'm cleaning but why bother when you've been siting on your ass all day playing a video game ugh I'm sorry I probably sound like a crazy nagging woman on here but I need to rant I'm so over it.....