Venting

I work in marketing research. Recently my secretary did something wrong that got me into trouble with one client. I tried to explain to her why she shouldn't do it that way but she started sobbing so I dropped it and decided to do this thing myself.

Later on I was telling my husband about all this and he suddenly got so angry at me! He said it's not the first time my secretary plays me and that I don't know how to be a boss and that if I'm working overtime it's my fault not hers because she's clever enough to get away with not doing anything.

In a way I'm afraid he's right but I just wish he hadn't shouted at me. Way to make me feel like a failure :(