16 and still no boyfriend

Sooo I'm not desperate but I just feel really insecure.... I've never had a boyfriend yet and I keep asking myself why. I actually are nice to people but like guys just see me as a friend and I start to feel kinda bad about that. Other girls have had boyfriends since they were like 13 and lost their virginity at the age of 14 or something I'm not saying I want that definitly not my personal minimum would be 18-19 I think but still sometimes I'd just like to have someone to be with and to love and I'd want someone to love and support me and be there for me and the other way around. Whenever I talk to some guy and we get to know each other and he's like what kind of music do you listen to and stuff like that and I tell them they're mostly like shoked and don't take me seriously and are immadiently like "oh dude thats so weird I've never seen a girl listening to Marilyn Manson" or something or they're like totally into going out when I'm more the person who'd like to stay at home and read books and watch Game of Thrones I do have more guy friends than girl friends because I just get along with them but do I really have to dress slutty and listen to house music to get someone slightly interested in me?