I've never had a baby shower before, but I've always helped plan other people's with them. I just wanna have a sprinkle because I'm not really comfortable with asking for gifts I said on the invites that gifts are appreciated, but not expected. I just want to celebrate this new life with my friends and family! My shower will be 8/21.

My sister on the other hand, who stays with me btw has not even told me that she's expecting or having a shower and it's gonna be 9/4. She has no job, dropped out of college and as of right now is dependent on my parents and myself to take care of her. And she knows that I'm having a baby and shower, she invited all of my friends, and she's telling them to come to hers instead of mine because it's my fourth child. And I'm "rich" apparently .(I'm not) 

Am I wrong for feeling a little angry about it all and anxious to get it all over with? I've tried talking to her, but she denies even being pregnant although my parents have told me. And personally I don't think I can continue to take care of myself, my kids, and her and now her new baby for much longer! She's 22 years old!!! (Sorry it's a bit lengthy)