Fed up now

Shannon
So this is my 12 month TTC baby number 1.  Had absolutely no luck so far and had kind of just given it a rest and thought it will happen when it happens.  I'm now on cycle day 34, had some spotting on the toilet paper last week at about maybe 9 DPO (not entirely sure when I ovulate anymore.)  Took a hpt two days before AF was due and the day she was due and both BFN, it's now two days later and I still have no period or pregnancy symptoms, nothing!  Do you all think it's worth taking another test or do you think AF is just playing games 😔