Initiating sex

I am so tired of initiating sex. My fiancé and I are 12 years apart.(him being older) We rarely have sex and when we do its because I initiate sex. Not only that when I finally get him there he sometimes looses his hard on. Im so tired of always having to start and re- uping his hard on. It makes me feel so unattractive. I try everything and anything to make him happy in bed. He usually blames it on his diabetes sometimes performance anxiety. I feel so unattractive. (I know its so sad that i associate love and attractiveness on sex) but i do. I miss having an active sex life. 😥😟
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Ru

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Honey, it's normal to associate those two things together. He is right diabetis can mess with your blood flow, how you feel, it can make you extra tired. So just that would probably effect his libido. I'm not sure how old he is but his T levels could be low and that wou effect a lot of things! Plus you know he is older, men hit their sexual peak in their 20's... 

Ka

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Look into a prescription for him. And, yes, diabetes can effect that.

Ab

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My boyfriend is 27 and I have to initiate everything most of the time so we are in the same boat! I know how you feel lol