Ive posted before about my fiance not saving up for our apartment we move to next week then on top of that he quit his job without consulting me a month before we move because he thought he would find something better. Now my fiance has done alot for me yes but at the same time i feel this was so irresponsible and idt its fair to allow him to move with me after i hustled to buy furniture on my own and now have to give up my whole savings for rent and fees i thought we would be going half at first. Im only 20 and in college and i dont want to go to my mom for help because ik ill get a big fat told you so she didnt want us moving together yet anyways. But ive been lieing saying hes been helping out because she loves him and i dobt want to start making him look bad. But i just dk now. Some of my friends looked at me craxy when i said im not helping him just because hes my fiance