If you get pregnant for a guy you just met 4 months ago and he asks you to abort it and you do, would you still date him after you abort it?

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If someone told me to abort my baby. . id abort them out of my life. My child comes before anyone!

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I will never let someone force me to abort the baby. That will NEVER be an option.

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I wouldn't abort it in the first place.

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If he asks you to have a baby for him, then asks you to abort it that seems very odd. It's like he's trying to see if he has some type of control over you. Don't fall into that trap.

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My now husband and I were dating for 3 months when I found out I was pregnant. He told me that it was my choice, and he would support me no matter what I chose. I know he wanted me to abort, we were both 18, but I chose to keep the baby. Our son is now two, and we got married in May this year and are extremely happy. It's your choice, but try to use protection with this guy if you continue to date him.

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Probably not. I feel like that would just come between you. Abortion isn't easy for most of the women who do it. There's a lot guilt and mixed emotions about it. The guy that pushed you to do it.... He's going to be who you blame most besides yourself. That's a lot of stress on a relationship, especially one that's only 4 months along. Besides that... Is that the kind of person you want to be with? But it's a personal decision for sure. It all is

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It would depend. If it was something we had discussed at length and we both mutually came to the decision that an abortion would be best, possibly. If he just found out I was pregnant and immediately told me to get rid of it without asking how I felt or what I wanted, probably not.

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It depends. People get scared especially if they're young. It's scary to find out you are pregnant or that you got someone pregnant when you aren't expecting it. I think men mentioning abortion is pretty normal especially being young. When it boils down to it it was your choice to have an abortion or not and that shouldn't impact if you continue to date him or not.

If you get pregnant for a guy you just met 4 months ago and he asks you to abort it and you do, would you still date him after you abort it?

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