Cervix

Ok so I'm 2 full days late. I got a bfp day before missed period. Tested again on the day of missed period and got a bfn. Still no af. My cervix is way way high and super squishy like really soft. Like I wish I could compare the squishy of it to something. And my bf and I had sex and usually he bumps my cervix and it hurts but not at all tonight. Any thoughts or ideas? Like is this normal.