Less sex apart of being together for awhile?

Question

My partner and I have been together almost 9 years. We love one another and have kids. He works a lot and I stay home. Since our last child (2 years ago) our sex life has been less active.  ... But when we do have it... Its amazing.

Is this a normal thing to not be as sexual when you have been with someone this long? I realized we are having sex once a week sometimes its 2 weeks ! I used to be this sexual person and now not so much... I just don't want it like I used to... Tho I do want to be the old me again! Help!

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My husband and I have been together for 9 almost 10 years. We have sex between 3-7 times a week. We like to try new things all the time to keep it interesting and not get into a "boring sex routine". Try some new things like role play, sex toys, sex games, dessert toppings, lap dance, blind folds, hand cuffs, nipple clamps, watch porn together, erotic massage, have sex anywhere other than the bed room and try new positions Google karmasutria.

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I'm sure it's normal. 
I've been with my partner 7 years now. At first we would have sex all the time, multiple times a day anywhere we could do it. After 3 months I found out I was pregnant and it slowed down abit to like 2 times a day. When she was born it was more like once a day. We moved in together and it was great  he then went away to work so we only saw each other weekends so we were like rabbits again. Then BAM pregnant again. Again it slowed down. It never really came back till we were TTC. We would never leave each other frustrated though. He works for himself so he has a very busy day and I'm a housewife looking after our 2 children a dog. I suppose it's all down to the couple. Everyone's different.

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I think it's pretty normal. Have you tried talking to him about it? Like telling him that you're worried? Have you tried doing something to make him sexually? Have you told him you're wanting to Have sex? Because communication is key in relationships, and it doesn't sound like you're communicating. I hope for the best. But seriously just talk to him

Less sex apart of being together for awhile?

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