Doing the deed every other day cramps my style!

Lindsey • IVF miracle born 12/11/2018, surprise baby #2 due August 2021!
Anyone feel like a sex robot while your fertile? 'Scheduling' sex for every other day when I'm fertile is killing the romance and spontaneity. There's nothing worse than knowing your ovulating but being SO tired or busy that you don't even want to think of having sex!  How are you gals keeping it interesting and romantic?