I was seeing this guy, but when he said he wasn't ready for a relationship we decided to stay friends with possible benefits. We never had actual sex during the time we we're seeing each other, but I did perform oral sex on him. When it came time for benefits, he chickened out. He wanted to wait until we got tested. So I make the appointment & I ask if he's going to get tested. He replies "I dunno." So I got mad and we didn't talk for a few days. He apologized and I told him we should be friends only (no benefits). Everything was going fine until yesterday. He asked me to go down on him again. I tell him if he returned the favor I would consider it. But he used the same excuse about being scared about STDs. So I told him I'm not putting myself at risk by going down on him than. He got mad and said he's never had an STD. I told him I've never had one either & that I'm only getting tested because he asked me. I haven't heard from him since. Yesterday's argument was all through text. I'm not sure if I should just completely end it or not.