Miscarriage

Sara
Had a miscarriage today. Also had the D & C surgery right after the miscarriage. Very numb. 
For some reason my cousins are saying I didn't stay healthy for this pregnancy and that I didn't try. I quit smoking cigarettes, I stopped drinking completely and I stopped smoking marijuana. How did I not stay healthy?! How is that not trying for my unborn child? I only got 10 weeks with my baby.