What do you guys think is going on? Need advice please!

I know most people aren't doctors on here but I would really appreciate your expertise if you have any knowledge or experience with any of these things! So my cycle has been always between 25-32 days but it is always a different number of days long and every month except for this one I have had spotting three or so days before my period starts (since we started ttcing in january) I did opks most. Months but although the lines got close I don't know if they ever got darker but I did feel other ovulation signs (cm sometimes slight bleeding cramps) so in pretty sure I ovulated each month my bbt when I have done it has been all over the place and I usually get my closest to positive opk anywhere from Cd 16-21 we are referred to a gynocologist but it's going to take five months before we see her I suspect I might have a luteal phase defect and am thinking of using progesterone cream thus luteal phase to see if it helps but I don't know if that's safe I'm on anti depressants (which the doctor already made sure are pregnancy safe) and it says not to go on progesterone if you have major depressive disorder I really want to get pregnant asap we have been ttcing for almost eight months now and we just want a baby! Any kind advice would be appreciated (my husband also has some issues with not being able to orgasm easily because of a super sensitive perineum caused by medication so we have to use the syringe method also and can't just do a relaxed cycle we would never be able to have sex lol)