Cervical checks

Brittany • Mommy to a wonderful 6yr old boy, 2yr old girl and 1yr old girl.
I'm just cerious as to what the cervix is supposed to feel like and where is positioned at, at 34wks? I know they say you shouldn't check yourself, but I was in the shower and just wanted to see if I could tell anything. Anyways I tried feeling for it in 3 different positions and all I felt was squishy stuff. Isn't the cervix supposed to be long and hard right now? I had no problem checking cervix position while TTC but now I either can't find it or it has softened. My ultrasound I had at 30wks showed my cervix hadn't shortened yet. I couldn't find anything on the Internet.