Cervical checks

Brittany • Mommy to a wonderful 12yr old boy, 9yr old boy 7yr old girl 6yr old girl and 3yr old girl. Due March 11th 2023 with a boy.
I'm just cerious as to what the cervix is supposed to feel like and where is positioned at, at 34wks? I know they say you shouldn't check yourself, but I was in the shower and just wanted to see if I could tell anything. Anyways I tried feeling for it in 3 different positions and all I felt was squishy stuff. Isn't the cervix supposed to be long and hard right now? I had no problem checking cervix position while TTC but now I either can't find it or it has softened. My ultrasound I had at 30wks showed my cervix hadn't shortened yet. I couldn't find anything on the Internet.