I'm 27, married and in a good financial and place in life to start a family, but we did not get pregnant on purpose. Unplanned but not unwanted...mostly. I think from the outside it looks like perfect timing, but it's been a challenging year for our marriage and careers. I'm just having a really hard time liking the idea of being a mom. I feel so bad that I feel that way. I always thought I wanted kids "one day" just not today...  I feel like my life is ending. And I feel so selfish for so many reasons. Someone tell me I'm not alone!