My pregnancy was planned all the way. I went into this knowing my life was going to change and I would literally emerge a different woman. I welcomed this because being a mother seems natural as breathing to me. I'm married and happily so, but I always thought in terms of my own personal stake in this life changing decision. A man can walk away at any point for any reason and while I trust my husband is here forever and a day, I decided to become a mother when I was SURE I could handle it on my own. It was a personal decision. So yeah, there have been some truly hormonal moments where I've literally felt like I was having an outer body experience lol but I can say honestly I've never let "oh it's hormones" be an excuse for anything at all. I am still Korea. I'm still as smart and strong and capable as I've ever been. Physically I'm very vulnerable of course, but emotionally and mentally I can still hold my own. I see so many women who allow "hormones" to dictate their relationship and decisions and it's scary. Because they're taking that one thing men use against us to call us irrational and emotional and they're playing right in to it.