Do you fake it with your significant other?

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I have been faking it for 5 years with my husband. I enjoy sex with him so much. It's not him. I just can only get off with a very specific type of stimulation. And I don't mind faking it at all. I love how much it turns him on to think I'm getting off.

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It's better to teach them how to please you rather than fake it. Faking it you are teaching them to continue do things that are don't feel good because in their mind they are hitting the right spot.

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I have NEVER faked it and I never will. What's the point? He is just going to get it into his head that he's doing something you like and he's going to keep doing it. Faking it benefits no one, he just looks stupid and you don't get anything.

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Personally it's not because it isn't good, because I've told him how I like it and etc etc.

It's because I legit have a hard time shutting off the my mental to do list. That's with anything I do. It could be mine blowing sex. The right position all that cake but I will find myself making mental notes "gotta remember to get laundry detergent, shit did I.." Then next thing I know I'm not really in the sex anymore. So I fake it and let him finish because it's embarrassing to go "hey babe I was making a to do list and I'm not interested anymore, maybe later"

Which is why I love quickies 😂😁

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Why? I do my best not to be deceptive in my marriage. If they want you to have an orgasm, they should work for it.

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I never fake it. If I did, he would assume that whatever he was doing would work for me every time. Also, I just really believe in being honest, even if it hurts the other person, lol.

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And that's WHY you must must must  have communication !   You poor thing, you should  Not be faking it!

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Oh hell no.

He gets me to where I need to be 99.998% of the time.
For the 0.002% of the time he doesn't  for what ever reasons   (interrupted ,  they (my O's) got stuck , etc)  I get PISSED! I'd be a horrible  guy claiming  blue balls I swear!

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These women that 'always' fake it....  I'm so, so sorry.  :'(

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I can only orgasm when I'm on top anyways and it doesn't happen every time. I always tell him when I wasn't able to. I'm just happy to be one of those females that actually can cum via g-spot at all, since apparently we all can't. So when I do get one, I'm like greaaatt. If I don't, we just use my vibrator on me and I'm good. I've never lied about it.

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Why don't you just tell him how you like it?

Do you fake it with your significant other?

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