Not sure if I should or........(ladies you must read)

Kat
Today's topic : pre seed 
Ok so I've done my research on this trendy gel and I was at first 100percent ready this cycle to add this to the mix. Then after more digging I'm now feeling like uhhhhhh🙄idk . I see manyyyyyyh ladies praise this item and give wow reviews (I'm sipping my tea like "yes bish") then I look and see more ladies pointing fingers to this item as to why they MC 🙄(that's when I placed the tea dwn like "oh wait pause bish") anyway now I'm pondering a few things, first if pre seed allows all the sperm to swim to where they need to go , then there goes my girl chance ... Because now both male and female are waiting around ready 😬 secondly , I'm pondering this fact - so if it helps all sperm then does this mean the Soren's that are weak and not healthy make it further in the race and now have a better chance to meet my egg? 
Hmmmm 🙄🙄🙄 so at this point I'm thinking what if I use this item a few times out my week but not the entire week???? Has anyone personally used this ? Also can we chat on your honest feedback ? 
Some said it worked ASAP others said never worked so I'm just feeling in limbo