Eating out vs blow jobs

Jordan • I like weird stuff and I'm super honest
I'm very curious what people think about this. Are eating out and blow jobs considered the same when it comes to sex? Meaning if I give a guy a blow job is it okay for him to say no to eating me out? Loads (maybe not the best word but screw it!) of guys I've been with will be all about me giving them head but when I talk about eating me out its like I asked them to lick the floor at McDonald's. And it's not because of me, it's their thought of actual eating pussy in general. Oh but they will turn around and say "oh girl but I'll fuck you good" uhhh I'm pretty sure sex is mutual...it's for both of us. What do you ladies think? Do you think if you're willing to give a guy head he should return the favor?