Very upset

So my boyfriends wife informs me tonight that she may have gotten hpv from a guy she slept with. She's allergic to latex and has her tubes tied so she thinks it's okay to not use a condom alternative. We dont find out until tomorrow if she has it. So on top of possibly having HPV I also might be pregnant and all I feel right now is anger and I seriously want to cry. I have brought up the idea of her needing to use condoms to her and my boyfriend. I am not sure how to feel about all of this or how to react to it. Just so no one gets confused we all live together and everyone knows about each other, and me being pregnant would not change this. None of us use condoms within the relationship, but outside of our relationship me and my boyfriend do, his wife doesn't.

Thank you to those who gave me advice and to those who didn't thank you for not putting me down for my life style. Some may think it's filthy, but that's your opinion. I will live my life the way I like too.