Rude @$$ embryologist- or am I being sensitive?

Laura • Unexplained infertility. Both 32. TTC 5 years. July 16` IVF w/ICSI. Aug FET #1 BFN / Sept FET #2 BFP!
Just got off the phone with embryology to see what the grades were on my two frozen embryos (5AB and 5AC).  I asked her if transferring one or two (taking into consideration the grades and my age 32) would be best. She said one. I asked her if transferring two would be the worst thing in the world? She said no, the worst thing in the world is transferring two and delivering them at three months.  It was sort of a slap in the face. I was at lost for words...