What a mess

Found out today that I had a BFP with #1 and it was somewhat unexpected but gladly welcomed. I am in my 30's and a year ago was told after some irregular pap results and a leep biopsy I would most likely need to have a hysterectomy sooner than later. At that point I quit my birth control. I am in a relationship that is great but sill going through a long drawn out divorce.  Not my idea of a happy time for me and I am worried about the judgement and drama that could potentially ensue once word gets out.  I am stressing about that more than being happy about my news!  I have always wanted kids but never really tried due to a crappy marriage (side note we split 2 years ago for the 3rd and final time) Any advice?  This isn't how I pictured having my first!