My baby is four weeks old now. I am practically spending all day feeding th baby sleeping eating taking a shower while my mother in law and husband take care of my older daughter and cook and clean. I'm starting to feel guilty as people are saying in using the baby as an excuse to skip doing work and avoid my chores. Is that true?  Am I truly being lazy ? Or is th his the way things are supposed to be now for a while ?  I'm starting to feel guilty myself so just wanted to check in with U guys