My husband and I have been trying for a bit now for a baby. I'm not pressuring him or anything. I've tried sexy outfits, porn, awesome bjs, and new things he's wanted to try. And yet he can't seem to get hard or stay hard. We are young he's 29 and I'm 25. Idk what I'm doing wrong. It's tearing me apart bc I feel likes its my fault. I cry about it and he always says baby it's not you. It's makes me feel unsexy which doesn't help in the TTC journey.