Baby shower opinions?🤔

Destiny • 19 years old. Haisley Carter due Christmas Eve💕
We plan on having two baby shower if not more.. My mom is throwing me one and my bestie, and I'm not sure if my SO family plans to or not. But I want a fall theme baby shower and our sweet baby is Due Christmas eve. I was thinking my baby shower from my mom should be October 22 when should we plan the one from my bestie? September, or November?