Nervous / Scared

Any moms having their 2nd baby? You see here's the thing I'm terrified of change. I was scared of things changing between my husband and I before our son was born (2014) and we couldn't be any happier. I was afraid of us constantly fighting. But now we are expecting a girl Oct. 17... Not only will there be another change but now my toddlers life is going to be different too. I'm just worried that he will feel lonely or like we don't love him as much or pay attention to him enough. Two weeks ago he's started to climb into our bed and wants to sleep with us. He wants more hugs. He's very clingy now and that's not like him at all, he's very independent. Obviously I will love my babies equally but sometimes I can't help but get emotional. If there are any mommies out there with any experience, I am all ears 🙂