My first baby shower!

Is it okay not to have a baby shower? I am so disappointed in myself about it, my family doesn't seem to care to help or come. I've asked my aunt if I could have it at her place and I got no answer, I only have 2 friends, I'm stuck I really wanted one but I don't want to do a baby shower for my babyboy if no one will come, or I can't find a place to do it at. We are already struggling with trying to find a apartment before september 1st because we are currently living with my Nana and she wants us out by then, so much stress, such little time before my babyboy is here. October 11th and I don't know what to do 😩