How long after giving birth did you all wait before you had sex? With my first I had quite a lot of problems after so had to wait quite a while but it's only been two weeks with this one and I feel great, I didn't tear or graze or anything and there is no pain down there at all, I feel no different. We've done other things (no penetration at all) and that was great but I really don't know how long I can wait!