huge argument between boyfriend and I...

So me and my boyfriend have been together for about close to 5years and we have been fighting all week because he got introuble with the cops and he has court so I've been highly upset and I told him he has a choice to talk to me or smoke... Ps which is why he got introuble with the cops and he pretty much chose to smoke and said I'm just gonna have to be mad am I going crazy or is that showing he doesn't care about my feelings lately