I want to tell briefly what is going on because I'm desperate and need help. I'm 14 weeks pregnant and my husband just a few months ago got arrested for a DWI. He wasn't drinking while driving he had left a beer can in the car he had earlier that day but he was in no way drunk or intoxicated. He just finished all his court hearings and got the charge down to a misdemeanor. He has to now do community service and go to this program and he works at night. It is so hard to see him go through this because he works at night from 11pm to 7:30 am and has to go to this program at 10am then community service from 3pm to 6pm. It is too much and I know he won't be able to get enough sleep. My job doesnt pay that much to support him to be out of work temporarily until this is all over and since I'm pregnant and I'm afraid it will be stressful to do 2 jobs. I'm so lost.