I'm a FTM and was really excited about having my baby shower on the 7th of August when I was 37 weeks. Sent out invitations planned the menu and everything. My mother's Dr scheduled her to have her knee redone two and a half weeks before. It was minor surgery and she would be in a cast and rebar for a week. My whole family including my mother was bugging me about changing my baby shower date on count of my mother. I didn't want to change it because she would be home and have her cast of by then. She went ahead and rescheduled it on her on to the 28th of August(my due date) I'm really frustrated now because I know I'm not gonna be able to go to my own baby shower. And my mother just keeps saying she wanted to be there but to me she didn't think about whether or not it should be changed that far back considering the chance of me not being there. I get a sweep on Tuesday and I'm already 3cm. I'm not gonna be able to go. And on top of that when I brought it up last week she said that she forgot that it was in two weeks and nothing is done. I wanted to have on nd I'm upset that it won't happen cause of other people selfishness