Bored Boyfriend

So I don't really know what to do but basically my bf is getting really bored of waiting around to see me and talk to me and says he wants to be able to whenever he wants and so do I, but my family is really controlling and put limits on my phone and drag me to this shitty little house in the middle of nowhere for a holiday even though I'm almost 18. I really love him and miss him all the time and he feels the same but he says he's getting fed up of waiting around and I try to explain to him but I always say the same thing because there is nothing else to say: "it's out of my control". Any ideas? I'm really in love with him and don't want to lose him...