Gotta love the fact that days after I get engaged my mom says if we have a "poncy pagan wedding" she won't go because she doesn't believe in it.. we're not planning on getting married for a couple of years anyway but as someone who has never wanted to get married until now, a pagan type wedding is the only kind of wedding me and James would be comfortable with.. and I know my mom has always had a very black and white view of the world and is very stubborn but this hurts.. oh well it's about me and James not what anyone else want so tough xx