Round 2

Rachael • I'm a 34 year old RN and mother of three (soon to be four). Kinda feel like a 1st time mom, since my youngest is 12!
I swear my boyfriend is trying to make me go batshit crazy. 
He has started doing this thing where he basically just dismisses it every time I get annoyed. It's like he just thinks "pregnancy hormones" and pretends like it shouldn't matter. (He is smart enough not to actually say that though, kudos to him). 
Anyways, about two weeks ago we had the fight over his niece being dropped off at my house in the mornings. Her mom insists that she be driven to school even though the school is a block and a half away, in clear site of my house, and she's in 5th grade.
Anyways, so this started a week and a half ago. It was supposed to be three days a week. Now here we are, the first full week of school. And his sister calls at 9pm last night wanting to bring her an extra day this week. And honestly I wouldn't care, but he is so dismissive of the fact that I am annoyed to be doing it at all, that it's like he now says yes just to spite me. And I want to punch him in his throat! 
He has become this way with every argument though. If he doesn't believe that I should be upset, then he doesn't care if I am. He says things like "I hear what you are saying", but he makes no moved to change things or fix things. Basically what I'm hearing now is "I hear you but I don't agree so I don't care". It's gotten to the point that I honestly just want him to go the fuck away and leave me alone. This is MY HOUSE. In MY NAME. He can drive his sisters kid from his grandmothers house if it's such a big deal to him that he be able to do that. And he can do everything else from there too. I'm so fucking over it. And the pregnancy hormones are probably amplifying my anger, but I don't think that they are creating the anger.