Me and my boyfriend decided to substain from any and all sexual activities. We decided being in our older teens-young 20's it stressful with being in school, etc to have "Am I/she pregnant everymonth when we do hj, bj, anal, etc. we know it almlost null to none to become Pregnat from pre-ejaculation or any of thoses things above..but we rather save the stress and worry (specialy since i have autism and high anxity) and save things for when we are married. Now, some might say well what if he goes cheating if he wants some. He wont. He loved me and I him. He gave me a promise ring and we hope to be engadged in a few years. Were both happy with the descion. We want to focues on us and cuddles, etc. socity makes us thing we have to have sex of some kind to be real or series, but truth is you don't. I wanna save myself and thoses special moments for marrige. He does too.