Is it me or does anyone feel this insane pressure to "SnapBack" to pre baby body? It's so much pressure from social media and women around you to be this super tight tucked stomach mom. To me I think that's just plain ridiculous. If you want to look your best after baby I get that what I'm referring to is the "my body doesn't look like I had a a baby three weeks ago" or " what waist or stretch marks?" Is it wrong to give your body up as a sacrifice to bring life? My sister seen me and said "you don't have stretch marks but better rub cocoa butter on your stomach to not get them" IM OK WITH GETTING SOME TIGER STRIPES! Then my mom said "better not get to outrageous with eating, you will have a tummy afterwards" okkkk and? For Petes sake man.