**SORRY FOR THE LONG POST** I'm 22 nearly 23 & DH is 25, we have been together for just over 6 years and very settled with our own house etc. I have been trying to conceive for around 15months now and I'm slowly starting to lose my mind. We hadn't made it public that we have been trying for a baby as we are quite private. The other evening, my partners birthday, we were out for a family meal and my partners brother started telling us how we need to have a baby, how we shouldn't leave it to  late, how he "just did it" etc. I could feel my eyes slowly fill up with tears and DH noticed and just told everyone how we were having problems with conceiving out of temper (which I understood, he wanted to stop the questioning) My brother in law went on to then quiz me why I haven't been to the doctors, "am I not even bothered that I can't give my partner a baby", I should find out if it's my fault. Am I wrong to feel so mad with my brother in law? I feel even worse than I already did. Advise please xxx